Finding the truth of the situation

We need to get to the 'root' of the matter.

Looking at anyone else's life we might assume that they have a perfect life, that they've a great job, a loving family ,a fast car, lots of confidence, no family problems and no money worries. 

But what is the actual truth? If we look under the surface and get to know them better we realise that actually whilst they're speaking at conferences and flying around the world, they too are so over come with nerves that they feel physically sick. That they worry that they might not reach the mark that their boss is expecting or might not meet their sales targets for the week. That they missed their child's end of term concert because they had to do something for work and they're beating themselves up for not being there. 

We find that actually their seemingly loving husband is controlling, or unreasonable in some way. That their lifestyle they have chosen is hard to maintain because their friends expect so much of them. We find that they have hopes, fears, dreams, and phobias just like us. 

They might not share exactly the same hopes fears dreams and phobias as you but somewhere under all the flashy exterior there is a human being wanting to be accepted and loved, just like the rest of us. So instead of judging someone by their outward appearances and feeling inadequate in comparison, see the true person who lies within.